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How Do You Build Healthy Relationships With The Raabsmiths
Honesty, safety, trust, and vulnerability—these are the building blocks of true intimacy. It’s a process, a skill, and sometimes, a ...complete re-education.
What’s one thing that has helped you build (or rebuild) trust in relationships? Drop your thoughts below.
Listen to our full episode with The Rabbsmiths here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIJi8loTtqA
#TrustBuilding #HealingTogether #Codependency #HealthyRelationships #SelfAwareness #SexAddiction #BetrayalTrauma #TheRabbsmiths #DanDrake[+] Show More

How Do You Build Healthy Relationships With The Raabsmiths
What does it take to have a healthy relationship??
Honesty, safety, trust, and vulnerability—these are the building blocks of true intimacy. It’s a process, a skill, and sometimes, a complete re-education.
What’s one thing that has helped you build (or rebuild) trust in relationships? Drop your thoughts below.
Listen to our full episode with The Rabbsmiths here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIJi8loTtqA
#TrustBuilding #HealingTogether #Codependency #HealthyRelationships #SelfAwareness #SexAddiction #BetrayalTrauma #TheRabbsmiths #DanDrake
Honesty, safety, trust, and vulnerability—these are the building blocks of true intimacy. It’s a process, a skill, and sometimes, a complete re-education.
What’s one thing that has helped you build (or rebuild) trust in relationships? Drop your thoughts below.
Listen to our full episode with The Rabbsmiths here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIJi8loTtqA
#TrustBuilding #HealingTogether #Codependency #HealthyRelationships #SelfAwareness #SexAddiction #BetrayalTrauma #TheRabbsmiths #DanDrake

Partners Blamed for Sex Addiction With Barbara Steffens
Are we doing enough to educate professionals on betrayal trauma and sex addiction?
Many therapists graduate without proper training in these areas, leaving people struggling to find the right support. If you're seeking help, it’s crucial to find a specialist who truly understands your experience—not just someone who checked a box.
Have you ever struggled to find the right therapist? Share your experience in the comments.
Watch our full episode with Barbara Steffens here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZY949i59DA&t=576s
#MentalHealthMatters #HealingJourney #BetrayalTrauma #BarbaraSteffens #Podcast #Sexaddiction #Addiction
Many therapists graduate without proper training in these areas, leaving people struggling to find the right support. If you're seeking help, it’s crucial to find a specialist who truly understands your experience—not just someone who checked a box.
Have you ever struggled to find the right therapist? Share your experience in the comments.
Watch our full episode with Barbara Steffens here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZY949i59DA&t=576s
#MentalHealthMatters #HealingJourney #BetrayalTrauma #BarbaraSteffens #Podcast #Sexaddiction #Addiction

Building True Intimacy book with The Raabsmiths and Dan Drake
Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith talk about their journey as a couple with sex addiction and betrayal trauma in recovery.
Together with Dan Drake they have written the Building True Intimacy workbook which gives couples a clear path towards healing.
What do you think is the first step for couples recovery? Drop it in the comments.
Listen to our full episode with The Rabbsmiths here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIJi8loTtqA
#TrustBuilding #HealingTogether #Codependency #HealthyRelationships #SelfAwareness #SexAddiction #BetrayalTrauma #TheRabbsmiths
Together with Dan Drake they have written the Building True Intimacy workbook which gives couples a clear path towards healing.
What do you think is the first step for couples recovery? Drop it in the comments.
Listen to our full episode with The Rabbsmiths here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIJi8loTtqA
#TrustBuilding #HealingTogether #Codependency #HealthyRelationships #SelfAwareness #SexAddiction #BetrayalTrauma #TheRabbsmiths

Do We Truly Understand Betrayal Trauma? With Barbara Steffens
Mental health awareness has come a long way, but we still need more understanding about trauma, addiction, and healing.
Betrayal trauma, in particular, is widely not understood by addicts, therapists and the general public.
Listen to our latest episode with Barbara Steffens.
What do you think—are we making progress? Drop your thoughts in the comments!👇
Watch our full episode with Barbara Steffens here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZY949i59DA&t=576s
#MentalHealthMatters #HealingJourney #BetrayalTrauma #BarbaraSteffens #Podcast #Sexaddiction #Addiction
Betrayal trauma, in particular, is widely not understood by addicts, therapists and the general public.
Listen to our latest episode with Barbara Steffens.
What do you think—are we making progress? Drop your thoughts in the comments!👇
Watch our full episode with Barbara Steffens here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZY949i59DA&t=576s
#MentalHealthMatters #HealingJourney #BetrayalTrauma #BarbaraSteffens #Podcast #Sexaddiction #Addiction

Understanding Narcissism
In this episode, we talk about the complex dynamics of narcissistic relationships with Dr. Janie Lacy, particularly focusing on how being with a narcissist can create lasting emotional harm.
Through relatable insights, we highlight how love bombing, devaluing, and discarding cycles play out in long-term relationships, leaving partners feeling inadequate or to blame. This conversation aims to provide clarity and empower individuals to shift from confusion and despair to self-healing and growth.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your experiences below!
#Abuse #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalHealing #Cheating #JanieLacy #Narcissist
Through relatable insights, we highlight how love bombing, devaluing, and discarding cycles play out in long-term relationships, leaving partners feeling inadequate or to blame. This conversation aims to provide clarity and empower individuals to shift from confusion and despair to self-healing and growth.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your experiences below!
#Abuse #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalHealing #Cheating #JanieLacy #Narcissist

When to Leave a Relationship?
In this episode, we break down the dynamics of toxic relationships with Dr. Janie Lacy, helping you identify patterns and behaviors that may dangerous. We explore the emotional roller coaster of push-pull dynamics and unfulfilled needs that keeps people stuck.
We also address the underlying feelings of abandonment, anxiety, and loneliness that can make it difficult to leave. This conversation aims to reduce shame, normalize these experiences, and remind viewers that anyone can find themselves in these situations. Tune in for valuable insights and practical guidance.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your experiences in the comments!
#ToxicRelationships #EmotionalWellbeing #RelationshipAdvice #JanieLacy #BetrayalTrauma #SexandLoveAddiction
We also address the underlying feelings of abandonment, anxiety, and loneliness that can make it difficult to leave. This conversation aims to reduce shame, normalize these experiences, and remind viewers that anyone can find themselves in these situations. Tune in for valuable insights and practical guidance.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your experiences in the comments!
#ToxicRelationships #EmotionalWellbeing #RelationshipAdvice #JanieLacy #BetrayalTrauma #SexandLoveAddiction

Codependency and Sex Addiction: Are They Connected?
Today, we tackle the compelling question: Is codependency a part of sex addiction?
Through a dynamic conversation, we explore if and how codependency manifests in addiction and recovery.
We examine the intersection of addiction, control, and the veneer addicts use to manage how others perceive them, shedding light on the deeper dynamics at play. Whether you’re navigating addiction, recovery, or exploring the concept of codependency, this discussion provides valuable insights and guidance.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your thoughts in the comments!
#Codependency #SexAddiction #RecoveryJourney
Through a dynamic conversation, we explore if and how codependency manifests in addiction and recovery.
We examine the intersection of addiction, control, and the veneer addicts use to manage how others perceive them, shedding light on the deeper dynamics at play. Whether you’re navigating addiction, recovery, or exploring the concept of codependency, this discussion provides valuable insights and guidance.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your thoughts in the comments!
#Codependency #SexAddiction #RecoveryJourney

What is Codependency?
In this episode, we explore the fine line between genuine care for others and the patterns of codependency. Through an insightful discussion, we examine the difference between healthy caregiving and behaviors that lead to self-depletion, resentment, or feelings of martyrdom.
Using real-world examples, we highlight how codependency often stems from a need to ensure others are okay to maintain personal well-being, while genuine care feels more balanced and self-sustaining.
Join us as we unpack the signs of codependency, its impact on relationships, and how to cultivate healthier dynamics.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your thoughts below!
#Codependency #HealthyRelationships #SelfAwareness #SexAddiction
Using real-world examples, we highlight how codependency often stems from a need to ensure others are okay to maintain personal well-being, while genuine care feels more balanced and self-sustaining.
Join us as we unpack the signs of codependency, its impact on relationships, and how to cultivate healthier dynamics.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your thoughts below!
#Codependency #HealthyRelationships #SelfAwareness #SexAddiction

Codependency part of Sex Addiction?
In this episode, we talk about the complex world of codependency, exploring its roots, dynamics, and if it is a part of sex addiction. Drawing from expert insights, we unpack the definition of codependency.
Through thoughtful discussion, we examine the fear of expressing needs, the denial of self, and the deep-seated desire to manage others’ perceptions and emotions.
This conversation sheds light on the unconscious patterns of codependency and offers valuable perspectives for those seeking to understand and address these behaviors.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your thoughts with us!
#Codependency #RelationshipHealing #SelfAwareness #SexAddiction #BetrayalTrauma
Through thoughtful discussion, we examine the fear of expressing needs, the denial of self, and the deep-seated desire to manage others’ perceptions and emotions.
This conversation sheds light on the unconscious patterns of codependency and offers valuable perspectives for those seeking to understand and address these behaviors.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your thoughts with us!
#Codependency #RelationshipHealing #SelfAwareness #SexAddiction #BetrayalTrauma

A Deep Dive into Recovery and Relationships
In this special mailbag episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we tackle a powerful question from a viewer about the addict wanting to be heard and seen in the relationship.
Through engaging analogies and thoughtful insights, our experts explore the critical importance of timing in addressing trauma, the challenges addicts face in expressing their needs, and the nuanced dynamics of rebuilding trust and connection.
From understanding the complexities of unmet needs to rebalancing power within a relationship, this rich conversation offers practical guidance and validation for couples navigating the path of recovery.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your questions for future mailbag episodes!
#BetrayalTrauma #SexAddictionRecovery #RelationshipHealing
Through engaging analogies and thoughtful insights, our experts explore the critical importance of timing in addressing trauma, the challenges addicts face in expressing their needs, and the nuanced dynamics of rebuilding trust and connection.
From understanding the complexities of unmet needs to rebalancing power within a relationship, this rich conversation offers practical guidance and validation for couples navigating the path of recovery.
Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your questions for future mailbag episodes!
#BetrayalTrauma #SexAddictionRecovery #RelationshipHealing

Building Trust After Betrayal
We want to speak to you about the delicate balance of addressing needs and rebuilding trust in relationships affected by sex addiction and betrayal trauma. We examine the early stages of recovery, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing the betrayed partner’s healing and grief before delving into deeper relationship dynamics.
Through expert insights, we unpack the challenges addicts face when focusing on their needs too soon and how this can hinder the rebuilding of trust and connection. The discussion dives into the nuances of unmet needs, the role of past experiences, and the intricate process of fostering mutual understanding in a relationship.
Join us as we navigate this profound journey of repair and recovery, offering valuable perspectives for both partners. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more transformative insights!
#BetrayalTrauma #RelationshipHealing #SexAddictionRecovery #AddictiontoSex
Through expert insights, we unpack the challenges addicts face when focusing on their needs too soon and how this can hinder the rebuilding of trust and connection. The discussion dives into the nuances of unmet needs, the role of past experiences, and the intricate process of fostering mutual understanding in a relationship.
Join us as we navigate this profound journey of repair and recovery, offering valuable perspectives for both partners. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more transformative insights!
#BetrayalTrauma #RelationshipHealing #SexAddictionRecovery #AddictiontoSex

Sex Addict Wants to be Heard Too!
In this episode, we dive deep into the complex dynamics of healing relationships impacted by sex addiction and betrayal trauma. We discuss why addressing betrayal trauma must take priority before tackling broader relationship issues and how timing is a critical factor in the recovery process for both the addict and the partner.
We explore the challenges addicts face when expressing their needs during healing and why stabilization is essential before delving into deeper marital concerns.
Join us as we shed light on these intricate topics and provide valuable guidance for navigating the path toward recovery and reconnection. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insights!
#BetrayalTrauma #RelationshipHealing #SexAddictionRecovery
We explore the challenges addicts face when expressing their needs during healing and why stabilization is essential before delving into deeper marital concerns.
Join us as we shed light on these intricate topics and provide valuable guidance for navigating the path toward recovery and reconnection. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insights!
#BetrayalTrauma #RelationshipHealing #SexAddictionRecovery