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Conversations: Betrayal Violence with Hope Raye
Welcome to Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships with Dan Drake and guests Wendy Conquest, Jeannie Vittone, and Tim Stein. Today, they delve into the challenging topic of betrayal violence ...with therapist and magazine creator Hope Ray. Hope introduces the concept, defining betrayal violence as a complex dynamic involving secrecy, repeated fidelity violations, and abusive behavior.[+] Show More
Conversations: Betrayal Violence with Hope Raye
Welcome to Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships with Dan Drake and guests Wendy Conquest, Jeannie Vittone, and Tim Stein. Today, they delve into the challenging topic of betrayal violence with therapist and magazine creator Hope Ray. Hope introduces the concept, defining betrayal violence as a complex dynamic involving secrecy, repeated fidelity violations, and abusive behavior.
Quick Conversations: Men Support Groups
In this insightful conversation, Hope Ray discusses her work with men in a support group called Getting Dire Straight, where they delve into sensitive topics like male entitlement and misogyny.
Quick Conversations: What are the dynamics of relationships affected by addiction and betrayal?
In this episode, we speak with special guest Hope Ray on the dynamics of power and control in relationships affected by addiction and betrayal. We discuss how withholding essential information creates a power imbalance and restricts a partner's agency, ultimately leading to exploitation and harm. The conversation emphasizes the importance of transparency and informed consent in rebuilding trust and fostering healthy relationships post-recovery.
Conversations: Dating After A Break Up
In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we discuss the topic of dating for partners after a relationship ends. We explore the challenges faced by partners when relationships don't work out, emphasizing the lack of conversation and support for those navigating life after a breakup or divorce.
Quick Conversations: Why Is It Important To Have A Support System In The Dating Scene?
In this discussion, we delve into offering guidance for betrayed partners re-entering the dating scene post-recovery. We emphasize the importance of building a supportive social network before diving into dating. Self-exploration and identity formation are key steps to feeling confident and secure before seeking new relationships. Instead of viewing trust and safety as binary, we encourage seeing them as degrees, allowing for gradual progress.
Quick Conversations: Betrayed Partners & Dating Scene Post-Recovery
In this discussion, we explore the challenges of readiness and intimacy for betrayed partners entering the dating scene post-recovery. We challenge the cultural pressure to rush into sexual encounters and advocate for a more deliberate approach to building emotional connections. By reframing the question to focus on compatibility and emotional safety, we highlight the importance of self-awareness and setting boundaries.
Quick Conversations: What happens when partners end a relationship with a partner with addiction?
In this heartfelt discussion, we delve into the challenges partners face when deciding to end a relationship affected by addiction and trauma. We explore the complex emotions of sadness, relief, fear, and excitement that accompany this decision, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and processing grief and loss.
The conversation emphasizes the significance of trauma healing and self-discovery as essential steps towards embracing empowerment and vulnerability in new relationships.
The conversation emphasizes the significance of trauma healing and self-discovery as essential steps towards embracing empowerment and vulnerability in new relationships.
Conversations: Disclosure to Children with Casey Allison
Today, we're discussing the impact of sexual betrayal on families and children, a vital but often overlooked topic.
We're excited to have Casey Allison, a certified partner coach, who has created a unique children's book addressing this issue. Her book provides age-appropriate explanations about betrayal and recovery, featuring beautiful illustrations. Casey's experience as a mother of nine gives her valuable insights on helping children understand and cope.
Join us for this important discussion. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe!
We're excited to have Casey Allison, a certified partner coach, who has created a unique children's book addressing this issue. Her book provides age-appropriate explanations about betrayal and recovery, featuring beautiful illustrations. Casey's experience as a mother of nine gives her valuable insights on helping children understand and cope.
Join us for this important discussion. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe!
Conversations: Can a Betrayed Partner Traumatize the Addict?
In this insightful discussion, we explore the nuanced dynamics of trauma within relationships affected by addiction. We consider the possibility that partners' behaviors, both before and after discovery, can contribute to the addict's experience of trauma. By examining the interplay between autonomy, codependency, and unconscious coping mechanisms, we gain a deeper understanding of how trauma manifests in these complex relationships.
Quick Conversations: How Does Abandonment Correlate With Addiction?
In this thought-provoking discussion, we delve into the concept of abandonment wounds in relationships affected by addiction. We explore the idea that partners' actions, such as focusing on personal goals or life changes, may inadvertently exacerbate these wounds, potentially contributing to addictive behaviors in the addict.
Quick Conversations: Can Addicts Be Enabled By Their Partners?
In this discussion, we explore whether partners enable addictive behaviors in relationships affected by addiction. We note that while some partners may engage in behaviors to stay connected to the addict, we hesitate to label it as enabling. Our conversation highlights the complexity of addressing both addiction and underlying issues in therapy, emphasizing the need for comprehensive approaches to relationship dynamics impacted by addiction.
Sex Addiction with Dr. Rob Weiss
In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we discuss seeking treatment for sex addiction and betrayal trauma with Dr. Rob Weiss. We will breakdown his insights on when to seek treatment, different treatment centers, and affordability.