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Carried Shame and How It Shapes Your Childhood and Relationships
Featuring a vulnerable account from someone who began their healing journey as a young adult, this conversation brings clarity to a topic many of us feel but rarely name. If you’ve ever questioned why certain triggers run deep, or why you carry guilt that doesn’t feel like yours, this episode is for you.
It’s time to unpack the emotional contagion we absorb from our environment—and learn how true healing begins with awareness, self-compassion, and the courage to repair.
If this message resonates, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations that heal.
#CarriedShame #EmotionalHealing #ChildhoodTrauma #GenerationalShame #CodependencyRecovery #InnerChildHealing #MentalHealthMatters #ShameResilience #TherapyJourney #SelfWorth #HealingFromWithin #ParentingAndHealing #TraumaAwareness[+] Show More
Carried Shame and How It Shapes Your Childhood and Relationships
Today we talk about the concept of ""carried shame""—a form of inherited emotional pain that can follow us from childhood into our adult lives. Through powerful storytelling and deep clinical insight, we explore the difference between healthy shame and carried shame, and how upbringing, parenting styles, and unspoken family dynamics shape our sense of self-worth.
Featuring a vulnerable account from someone who began their healing journey as a young adult, this conversation brings clarity to a topic many of us feel but rarely name. If you’ve ever questioned why certain triggers run deep, or why you carry guilt that doesn’t feel like yours, this episode is for you.
It’s time to unpack the emotional contagion we absorb from our environment—and learn how true healing begins with awareness, self-compassion, and the courage to repair.
If this message resonates, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations that heal.
#CarriedShame #EmotionalHealing #ChildhoodTrauma #GenerationalShame #CodependencyRecovery #InnerChildHealing #MentalHealthMatters #ShameResilience #TherapyJourney #SelfWorth #HealingFromWithin #ParentingAndHealing #TraumaAwareness
Featuring a vulnerable account from someone who began their healing journey as a young adult, this conversation brings clarity to a topic many of us feel but rarely name. If you’ve ever questioned why certain triggers run deep, or why you carry guilt that doesn’t feel like yours, this episode is for you.
It’s time to unpack the emotional contagion we absorb from our environment—and learn how true healing begins with awareness, self-compassion, and the courage to repair.
If this message resonates, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations that heal.
#CarriedShame #EmotionalHealing #ChildhoodTrauma #GenerationalShame #CodependencyRecovery #InnerChildHealing #MentalHealthMatters #ShameResilience #TherapyJourney #SelfWorth #HealingFromWithin #ParentingAndHealing #TraumaAwareness
Being A Child of A Sex Addict
Today we speak on the long-term impact of sex addiction on children who grow up in hypersexualized households - a topic rarely discussed, but deeply important.
We discuss the 12 characteristics of being an adult child of a sex addict.
Whether you're a therapist, someone in recovery, or just curious about how family dynamics and hidden trauma can shape us, this episode offers education, validation, and a call for more open, compassionate conversations.
If this resonates with you, don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more content focused on healing and awareness.
#SexAddictionRecovery #TraumaBonding #GenerationalHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #ACSA #TherapyTalk #ChildhoodTrauma #FamilyDynamics #EmotionalHealing #ShameRecovery #SexualHealth #TherapistLife #HealingJourney
We discuss the 12 characteristics of being an adult child of a sex addict.
Whether you're a therapist, someone in recovery, or just curious about how family dynamics and hidden trauma can shape us, this episode offers education, validation, and a call for more open, compassionate conversations.
If this resonates with you, don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more content focused on healing and awareness.
#SexAddictionRecovery #TraumaBonding #GenerationalHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #ACSA #TherapyTalk #ChildhoodTrauma #FamilyDynamics #EmotionalHealing #ShameRecovery #SexualHealth #TherapistLife #HealingJourney
What Does Real Amends Look Like? Humility, Healing & Showing Up Daily
Making amends isn’t just a step—it’s a way of living. In this powerful and honest conversation, the hosts explore what it truly means to make amends in sex addiction recovery, especially when it comes to relationships. From the early days of confusion and disclosure to those pivotal “aha” moments when empathy finally lands, this episode breaks down the real heart behind the amends process.
Together, we discuss:
When is the right time to make amends?
What does a living amends actually look like?
How can you repair relational damage when the hurt runs deep?
Why waiting for the perfect moment could do more harm than good
This episode offers both betrayed partners and addicts a grounded, compassionate understanding of how to rebuild trust—not just through apologies, but through humble, consistent change.
If you’re on a recovery journey or supporting someone who is, this is the insight you’ve been waiting for.
#MakingAmends #LivingAmends #SexAddictionRecovery #BetrayalTrauma #RelationshipHealing #12StepRecovery #TrustRepair #HealingTogether #HumilityInRecovery #RecoveryJourney #TherapistTalks #EmotionalRepair #AddictionSupport
Together, we discuss:
When is the right time to make amends?
What does a living amends actually look like?
How can you repair relational damage when the hurt runs deep?
Why waiting for the perfect moment could do more harm than good
This episode offers both betrayed partners and addicts a grounded, compassionate understanding of how to rebuild trust—not just through apologies, but through humble, consistent change.
If you’re on a recovery journey or supporting someone who is, this is the insight you’ve been waiting for.
#MakingAmends #LivingAmends #SexAddictionRecovery #BetrayalTrauma #RelationshipHealing #12StepRecovery #TrustRepair #HealingTogether #HumilityInRecovery #RecoveryJourney #TherapistTalks #EmotionalRepair #AddictionSupport
The Truth About Amends in Sex Addiction Recovery - Can You Ever Make It Right?
What does it really mean to make amends after betrayal? In this deeply vulnerable and honest episode, therapists explore the amends process from both the addict’s perspective and the betrayed partner’s experience. It's not just about apologies or flowers—it’s about understanding the full emotional impact, taking responsibility, and learning how to rebuild trust over time.
We unpack the emotional weight behind amends in sex addiction recovery, why it can’t be rushed, and how true healing requires empathy, accountability, and a whole lot of humility. If you’ve ever asked, “How do I make things right after breaking trust?” — this conversation is for you.
Whether you’re on your own recovery journey or supporting someone through theirs, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate perspective on one of the hardest parts of the healing process.
#SexAddictionRecovery #AmendsProcess #BetrayalTrauma #RelationshipHealing #MakingAmends #RecoveryJourney #TraumaInformedCare #12StepRecovery #EmotionalHealing #AccountabilityMatters #TherapistTalks #HealingFromInfidelity #TrustRecovery
We unpack the emotional weight behind amends in sex addiction recovery, why it can’t be rushed, and how true healing requires empathy, accountability, and a whole lot of humility. If you’ve ever asked, “How do I make things right after breaking trust?” — this conversation is for you.
Whether you’re on your own recovery journey or supporting someone through theirs, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate perspective on one of the hardest parts of the healing process.
#SexAddictionRecovery #AmendsProcess #BetrayalTrauma #RelationshipHealing #MakingAmends #RecoveryJourney #TraumaInformedCare #12StepRecovery #EmotionalHealing #AccountabilityMatters #TherapistTalks #HealingFromInfidelity #TrustRecovery
When “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough: Making Amends That Truly Heal
In sex addiction recovery, there’s a moment—often unexpected—when everything shifts and the addict really "gets it". The defenses fall, empathy clicks into place, and for the first time, the betrayed partner feels truly seen and heard. This episode dives deep into that moment—the turning point in recovery when an addict can finally make meaningful amends.
Join us as we explore how amends aren’t just about apologies, but about transformation, timing, and truly taking responsibility—not only for the betrayal itself, but for the emotional aftermath during recovery. From the addict’s growth process to the partner’s need for safety and repair, we break down what genuine, healing amends look like.
Whether you’re in the midst of recovery or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers real insight, validation, and hope for building something stronger on the other side of broken trust.
#MakingAmends #SexAddictionRecovery #BetrayalTrauma #LivingAmends #RelationshipHealing #CouplesInRecovery #TraumaInformedCare #12StepRecovery #HealingTogether #InfidelityRecovery #EmotionalHealing #TherapistTalks #RecoveryJourney #SexAddiction
Join us as we explore how amends aren’t just about apologies, but about transformation, timing, and truly taking responsibility—not only for the betrayal itself, but for the emotional aftermath during recovery. From the addict’s growth process to the partner’s need for safety and repair, we break down what genuine, healing amends look like.
Whether you’re in the midst of recovery or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers real insight, validation, and hope for building something stronger on the other side of broken trust.
#MakingAmends #SexAddictionRecovery #BetrayalTrauma #LivingAmends #RelationshipHealing #CouplesInRecovery #TraumaInformedCare #12StepRecovery #HealingTogether #InfidelityRecovery #EmotionalHealing #TherapistTalks #RecoveryJourney #SexAddiction
Talking About Being the Adult Child of a Sex Addict & Sex Addiction w/ Culle L. Vande Garde
What happens when you grow up in a home where sex addiction, secrecy, and emotional disconnection define the family dynamic? In this intimate conversation, the author of Light in the Dark: The Hidden Legacy of Adult Children of Sex Addicts share how the book came to life—and why it's opening doors for healing across generations.
Featuring Culle L. Vande Garde, one of the co-authors and a certified sex addiction therapist, this episode explores the 12 core characteristics of adult children of sex addicts, the invisible weight of carried shame, and what it truly means to reclaim your voice, your story, and your right to healing.
Whether you’re a clinician, a survivor, or someone trying to make sense of your past, this discussion brings clarity, compassion, and hope. Learn how shame gets passed down, what recovery really looks like, and how to begin rewriting your narrative—one truth at a time.
If this resonates, be sure to like, subscribe, and share to help more people find this essential conversation.
#LightInTheDarkBook #AdultChildrenOfSexAddicts #GenerationalHealing #CarriedShame #SexAddictionRecovery #TraumaAwareness #FamilyOfOriginWork #EmotionalHealing #BreakingTheCycle #ShameResilience #InnerChildHealing #RecoveryJourney #TherapistTalks #MentalHealthMatters #Hidden #Culle L.VandeGarde
Featuring Culle L. Vande Garde, one of the co-authors and a certified sex addiction therapist, this episode explores the 12 core characteristics of adult children of sex addicts, the invisible weight of carried shame, and what it truly means to reclaim your voice, your story, and your right to healing.
Whether you’re a clinician, a survivor, or someone trying to make sense of your past, this discussion brings clarity, compassion, and hope. Learn how shame gets passed down, what recovery really looks like, and how to begin rewriting your narrative—one truth at a time.
If this resonates, be sure to like, subscribe, and share to help more people find this essential conversation.
#LightInTheDarkBook #AdultChildrenOfSexAddicts #GenerationalHealing #CarriedShame #SexAddictionRecovery #TraumaAwareness #FamilyOfOriginWork #EmotionalHealing #BreakingTheCycle #ShameResilience #InnerChildHealing #RecoveryJourney #TherapistTalks #MentalHealthMatters #Hidden #Culle L.VandeGarde
Is Avoidance A Part of Sex Addiction?
Why do so many people struggling with addiction also struggle with avoidance? In this deep dive, we explore how avoidance manifests in addiction, relationships, and emotional healing—and why overcoming it is critical for long-term recovery.
Avoidance may have once been a coping mechanism, but in addiction and relationships, it often leads to more harm than protection. How can individuals recognize their patterns and move towards true healing?
Share your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insights on addiction recovery and emotional well-being.
#AddictionRecovery #Avoidance #EmotionalHealing #MentalHealth #Relationships #SexAddiction
Avoidance may have once been a coping mechanism, but in addiction and relationships, it often leads to more harm than protection. How can individuals recognize their patterns and move towards true healing?
Share your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insights on addiction recovery and emotional well-being.
#AddictionRecovery #Avoidance #EmotionalHealing #MentalHealth #Relationships #SexAddiction
How Fear Shapes Addiction & Relationships
Is avoidance at the root of sex and love addiction? In this episode, we explore how different attachment styles influence addiction and why avoidance—whether emotional, relational, or physical—plays a significant role in both addiction and intimacy disorders.
Many struggling with addiction are unconsciously protecting themselves from deeper pain. But how does this avoidance impact their relationships, and what steps can they take to break free from these patterns?
Let us know your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insights on addiction recovery and mental health.
#AddictionRecovery #Avoidance #IntimacyDisorder #MentalHealth #Relationships #SexAddiction #LoveAddiction
Many struggling with addiction are unconsciously protecting themselves from deeper pain. But how does this avoidance impact their relationships, and what steps can they take to break free from these patterns?
Let us know your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insights on addiction recovery and mental health.
#AddictionRecovery #Avoidance #IntimacyDisorder #MentalHealth #Relationships #SexAddiction #LoveAddiction
You Aren't There For Me!
Is avoidance a core trait of addiction? In this discussion, we explore how avoidance manifests in sex addiction and other compulsive behaviors—whether it's emotional avoidance, distraction, or withdrawing from relationships and responsibilities.
Many people struggling with addiction use avoidance as a way to escape pain, fear, and emotional discomfort. But is avoidance the same as distraction? And how can breaking this pattern lead to real healing?
📢 Share your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insights on addiction recovery and mental health.
#AddictionRecovery #Avoidance #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealing #Sobriety
Many people struggling with addiction use avoidance as a way to escape pain, fear, and emotional discomfort. But is avoidance the same as distraction? And how can breaking this pattern lead to real healing?
📢 Share your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insights on addiction recovery and mental health.
#AddictionRecovery #Avoidance #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealing #Sobriety
Answering your Questions! Are 12 step meetings necessary?
Welcome to our February Mailbag episode, where we tackle your most pressing questions on addiction, therapy, and relationships! 💬
In this discussion, we cover:
🔹 Does skipping 12-step programs increase relapse risk?
🔹 Should addicts share what they discuss in therapy with their partners?
🔹 Can privacy and transparency coexist in recovery?
🔹 When is divorce the right choice after betrayal?
🔹 The impact of group therapy vs. individual therapy in long-term healing.
We dive deep into the complexities of sobriety, trust, and relational healing. Whether you’re navigating recovery, supporting a loved one, or seeking clarity on relationship dynamics, this episode is packed with valuable insights!
Got more questions? Drop them in the comments or email us at Conversations.SAR@gmail.com.
👍 Like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this discussion!
#AddictionRecovery #Therapy #12StepProgram #RelationshipHealing #MentalHealth
In this discussion, we cover:
🔹 Does skipping 12-step programs increase relapse risk?
🔹 Should addicts share what they discuss in therapy with their partners?
🔹 Can privacy and transparency coexist in recovery?
🔹 When is divorce the right choice after betrayal?
🔹 The impact of group therapy vs. individual therapy in long-term healing.
We dive deep into the complexities of sobriety, trust, and relational healing. Whether you’re navigating recovery, supporting a loved one, or seeking clarity on relationship dynamics, this episode is packed with valuable insights!
Got more questions? Drop them in the comments or email us at Conversations.SAR@gmail.com.
👍 Like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this discussion!
#AddictionRecovery #Therapy #12StepProgram #RelationshipHealing #MentalHealth
Why Isn't A Sex Addict Sharing?
When it comes to addiction recovery, how much transparency should there be between partners? Should an addict share what they’re working on in therapy, at their 12 step meetings, or is it a private space for personal growth?
While therapy is a personal journey, shutting out a partner completely can create barriers to healing. How can couples navigate this balance for a healthier relationship?
Share your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insights on addiction recovery and relational healing.
#AddictionRecovery #Transparency #TrustInRelationships #MentalHealth #Sobriety #SexAddiction #BetrayalTrauma
While therapy is a personal journey, shutting out a partner completely can create barriers to healing. How can couples navigate this balance for a healthier relationship?
Share your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insights on addiction recovery and relational healing.
#AddictionRecovery #Transparency #TrustInRelationships #MentalHealth #Sobriety #SexAddiction #BetrayalTrauma
12 step sex addiction meetings needed for sobriety?
Is attending a 12-step program essential for addiction recovery, or can therapy alone be enough? In this episode, we break down the key factors that contribute to long-term sobriety and discuss the role of community, therapy, and personal commitment in preventing relapse.
This episode is answering our a mailbag question. Send your questions to conversations.sar@gmail.com. We will answer them!
Share your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insights on addiction recovery and mental health.
#AddictionRecovery #12StepProgram #RelapsePrevention #Sobriety #MentalHealth
This episode is answering our a mailbag question. Send your questions to conversations.sar@gmail.com. We will answer them!
Share your thoughts in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insights on addiction recovery and mental health.
#AddictionRecovery #12StepProgram #RelapsePrevention #Sobriety #MentalHealth